YOU CAN BE ANYTHING…
The shibari journey that I received in Tokyo from Ren Yagami, a Japanese master, was a true privilege. Visiting with him was...
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Rina Trevi
- Feb 18
- 3 min
Your Intention
My yoni massage work always begins with the setting of an Intention. To set an intention, it’s best to try to avoid being too rational in...
Rina Trevi
- Jan 31
- 6 min
Medical Domme
I’m definitely a very curious person. I love this in myself. I believe that in order for someone to really know the elephant, one has to...
Rina Trevi
- Jan 10
- 2 min
Safe Space to Fall Apart
“Create a safe space for them to be a mess” Bodhi, my rope guru, instructed me early on and I took it to heart, as I do with all...
Rina Trevi
- Oct 14, 2022
- 6 min
Everlasting (Self-) Love
I worked very hard to get here. And so did my mother, father, grandparents, and several generations before them. My great grandfather...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 5, 2022
- 4 min
The Boundless and the Bound
It’s been ten years since I began making regular pilgrimages to Asia. That is where I learned about spiritual practices, participated in...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 3, 2022
- 2 min
What is Self-Worth
How we feel about ourselves—whether we respect ourselves—determines the quality of our life. It determines everything, from our overall...
Rina Trevi
- Nov 2, 2021
- 3 min
THE GIRL WHO WASN’T FREE
Freedom. As long as I remember myself, that’s been my longing. Freedom from pain, freedom from limitations, freedom from...
Rina Trevi
- Oct 6, 2021
- 5 min
A Symphony of Selves
“I want to end this existence!” - I scream, drowning in tears. Rivers of tears running through my eyes, mucus flowing down my nose which...
Rina Trevi
- May 8, 2021
- 4 min
Something is Undoing Both of Us.
Something is Undoing Both of Us. I need it. I really need it. He has a desperate look as we greet each other. A look of I’m sick and...
Rina Trevi
- Mar 28, 2021
- 4 min
I see nothing about you that I don’t love
Freedom What is valuable about power exchange journeys and why do we seek them? I have always been tirelessly curious about the deeper...
Rina Trevi
- Feb 22, 2021
- 14 min
Feminization
...To uncover the sources of difficult attractions we must reject easy labels and venture inward where the erotic mind has its own ways...
Rina Trevi
- Jan 28, 2021
- 10 min
Even Soldiers Need Surrender
Reflecting It’s important for me to slow down and reflect back on my work. As I do so, it becomes apparent that, wow, every client I see...
Rina Trevi
- Nov 11, 2020
- 4 min
Intimacy
We look for it through a deep emotional and physical connection with another, we look for the right kind atmosphere to catch a sense of...
Rina Trevi
- Nov 4, 2020
- 2 min
Aftercare
Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 7 min
Session with no map
“I am only interested in the ideas that become obsessive and make me feel uneasy. The ideas that I’m afraid of.” – Marina Abramovic One...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 4 min
DIE BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVING BURIALS (PART 2)
Reflections for my facilitation practice (Part 2) I also shared with Kate my reflection on my aspiration to practice as a death educator,...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 9 min
DIE BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVING BURIALS (PART 1)
I was inspired to get to know death from every possible angle. This would not be my first foray into this subject, as my vulnerability...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 4 min
Men Who Own Their Vulnerability
“Man-up!” “Pussy!” “Faggot!” Our society is very harsh on men with its demands that they be strong and “masculine,” with restrictions on...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 7 min
My Shibari Healing by a Powerful Master
In all these years that I’ve been a Domme, I often found myself wondering: why is there such a great variety of FemDoms and yet such a...
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