Safe Space to Fall Apart
“Create a safe space for them to be a mess” Bodhi, my rope guru, instructed me early on and I took it to heart, as I do with all...
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Rina Trevi
- Oct 14, 2022
- 6 min
Everlasting (Self-) Love
I worked very hard to get here. And so did my mother, father, grandparents, and several generations before them. My great grandfather...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 5, 2022
- 4 min
The Boundless and the Bound
It’s been ten years since I began making regular pilgrimages to Asia. That is where I learned about spiritual practices, participated in...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 3, 2022
- 2 min
What is Self-Worth
How we feel about ourselves—whether we respect ourselves—determines the quality of our life. It determines everything, from our overall...
Rina Trevi
- Nov 2, 2021
- 3 min
THE GIRL WHO WASN’T FREE
Freedom. As long as I remember myself, that’s been my longing. Freedom from pain, freedom from limitations, freedom from...
Rina Trevi
- Oct 6, 2021
- 5 min
A Symphony of Selves
“I want to end this existence!” - I scream, drowning in tears. Rivers of tears running through my eyes, mucus flowing down my nose which...
Rina Trevi
- May 8, 2021
- 4 min
Something is Undoing Both of Us.
Something is Undoing Both of Us. I need it. I really need it. He has a desperate look as we greet each other. A look of I’m sick and...
Rina Trevi
- Mar 28, 2021
- 4 min
I see nothing about you that I don’t love
Freedom What is valuable about power exchange journeys and why do we seek them? I have always been tirelessly curious about the deeper...
Rina Trevi
- Feb 22, 2021
- 14 min
Feminization
...To uncover the sources of difficult attractions we must reject easy labels and venture inward where the erotic mind has its own ways...
Rina Trevi
- Jan 28, 2021
- 10 min
Even Soldiers Need Surrender
Reflecting It’s important for me to slow down and reflect back on my work. As I do so, it becomes apparent that, wow, every client I see...
Rina Trevi
- Nov 11, 2020
- 4 min
Intimacy
We look for it through a deep emotional and physical connection with another, we look for the right kind atmosphere to catch a sense of...
Rina Trevi
- Nov 4, 2020
- 2 min
Aftercare
Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 7 min
Session with no map
“I am only interested in the ideas that become obsessive and make me feel uneasy. The ideas that I’m afraid of.” – Marina Abramovic One...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 4 min
DIE BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVING BURIALS (PART 2)
Reflections for my facilitation practice (Part 2) I also shared with Kate my reflection on my aspiration to practice as a death educator,...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 9 min
DIE BEFORE YOU DIE - LIVING BURIALS (PART 1)
I was inspired to get to know death from every possible angle. This would not be my first foray into this subject, as my vulnerability...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 4 min
Men Who Own Their Vulnerability
“Man-up!” “Pussy!” “Faggot!” Our society is very harsh on men with its demands that they be strong and “masculine,” with restrictions on...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 7 min
My Shibari Healing by a Powerful Master
In all these years that I’ve been a Domme, I often found myself wondering: why is there such a great variety of FemDoms and yet such a...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 5 min
#Metoo and #Himtoo
As the #metoo movement and the subject of sexual misconduct in all its incarnations gained momentum and increasingly became part of the...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 5 min
DEATH HAS MY LIFE
~ It is what death does best: it breathes life into the living ~ In the story of my life, death has been my savior. This does sound odd -...
Rina Trevi
- Apr 12, 2020
- 3 min
On Pain and Fear
“Men are born soft and supple; dead they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus...
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