It’s been ten years since I began making regular pilgrimages to Asia. That is where I learned about spiritual practices, participated in...

How we feel about ourselves—whether we respect ourselves—determines the quality of our life. It determines everything, from our overall...

Freedom. As long as I remember myself, that’s been my longing. Freedom from pain, freedom from limitations, freedom from...

“I want to end this existence!” - I scream, drowning in tears. Rivers of tears running through my eyes, mucus flowing down my nose which...

Something is Undoing Both of Us. I need it. I really need it. He has a desperate look as we greet each other. A look of I’m sick and...

Freedom What is valuable about power exchange journeys and why do we seek them? I have always been tirelessly curious about the deeper...

...To uncover the sources of difficult attractions we must reject easy labels and venture inward where the erotic mind has its own ways...

Reflecting It’s important for me to slow down and reflect back on my work. As I do so, it becomes apparent that, wow, every client I see...

We look for it through a deep emotional and physical connection with another, we look for the right kind atmosphere to catch a sense of...

Aftercare, as the name suggests, is taking care of your journeying partner after play. This type of care is all about gently bringing...

“I am only interested in the ideas that become obsessive and make me feel uneasy. The ideas that I’m afraid of.” – Marina Abramovic One...

Reflections for my facilitation practice (Part 2) I also shared with Kate my reflection on my aspiration to practice as a death educator,...

I was inspired to get to know death from every possible angle. This would not be my first foray into this subject, as my vulnerability...

“Man-up!” “Pussy!” “Faggot!” Our society is very harsh on men with its demands that they be strong and “masculine,” with restrictions on...

In all these years that I’ve been a Domme, I often found myself wondering: why is there such a great variety of FemDoms and yet such a...

As the #metoo movement and the subject of sexual misconduct in all its incarnations gained momentum and increasingly became part of the...

~ It is what death does best: it breathes life into the living ~ In the story of my life, death has been my savior. This does sound odd -...

“Men are born soft and supple; dead they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus...

“In most cases I’ve found that those who think they rarely or never fantasize aresimilar to people who don’t remember dreaming. They’re...