METHODOLOGY

My Approach

“Men are born soft and supple; dead they are stiff and hard. Plants are born tender and pliant; dead, they are brittle and dry. Thus whoever is stiff and inflexible is a disciple of death. Whoever is soft and yielding is a disciple of life. The hard and stiff will be broken. The soft and supple will prevail.”
 

Lao Tzu

You are successful...


You are successful. You have probably achieved the enviable life. Your education and hard work have paid off. Still, here you are, looking for entertainment to help with the emptiness of it all. Perhaps you’re more frightened and unhappy than ever before and it seems your material abundance, chronic hustle and “good citizen” ideals have done nothing for your well-being. In fact, this status-chasing, security-obsessed, hurried lifestyle is draining you of your life energy. You’ll probably make it to old age with this all too common deathbed regret: wishing you had had the courage to live a life true to yourself, not a life that others expected of you.
 

It’s not your fault. You were raised and molded in a distorted environment. Who you are today is a manifestation of the social arrangements you were born into: despite a thriving economy in the land of plenty, a great number of people still feel insecure, lonely, depressed, and suffer from a lack of enthusiasm over the miracle of their own existence. 
 

The invitation to dive into vulnerability is for those who dare. Simply because living a superficial life, escaping from oneself is no longer an option.
 

Methods & Techniques

I offer several scenarios that help you explore new realms of consciousness:
 

Mindful Conversation

Process-oriented psychology

Ritual 

Immobilization (Shibari)

Dreamwork

Exploration Of The Erotic Mind 

Guided Imagery 

Sexological Bodywork

 

The level of freedom is profound

 

I don’t produce the experience. I merely act as a key, using my expertise to open your mind and free the nervous system from its ordinary patterns, from the limiting games that comprise “personality.” 

Benefits of the Methodolgy

This is what you should expect to gain from my approach: 
 

  • A deeper understanding of your inner landscape 
     

  • A dissociation from habitual patterns of behavior which are no longer helpful. 
     

  • An experience of secure attachment and trust. When your body+mind+spirit FEELS secure attachment, it will begin creating the neural pathways for it.
     

  • An experience of non-game ecstasy and a deep revelation that the dangers you are fearing are unnecessary projections of your mind.
     

  • Release of stagnant emotions of fear, guilt, shame, self-loathing and sorrow. 
     

  • Reclaiming ownership of your life force: I teach self-reliance.
     

  • Guidance on how to integrate the consciousness-expanding experiences in your subsequent daily life.
     

Our goal is an insightful, transformational journey. At the very worst, you’ll end up the same person who entered the experience.

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